What Makes This Weekend So Special
Picture a full hotel transformed into a private, adults-only playground for two nights—where the daytime feels like a spirited spring break for grown-ups and the evenings shift into a sleek, music-driven nightclub. That’s the essence of this Indianapolis gathering, designed for open-minded couples and a select number of pre-vetted singles who value a pressure-free, welcoming environment. Every corner of the property becomes part of the experience, from poolside games under the sun to late-night dance floors pulsing with energy.
This isn't a typical hotel stay. The entire venue is reserved exclusively for attendees, creating a contained, judgment-free bubble where connection and fun take center stage. Wristbands are mandatory for anyone on the premises during the event, ensuring privacy and a shared sense of community. Whether you’re a seasoned participant or curious about your first lifestyle-flavored weekend, the atmosphere is built on mutual respect, enthusiastic consent, and a collective desire to let loose in a safe space.
Dates, Location, and the Flow of the Weekend
Mark your calendar for Friday, September 12 through Sunday, September 14, 2025. The official window runs from 3:00 p.m. on Friday until 3:00 p.m. on Sunday, packing a surprising amount of activity into roughly 48 hours. The host property is the Garnett Hotel & Conference Center, located at 2930 Waterfront Parkway West Drive in Indianapolis. You might also hear it referred to as the Garnett Waterfront or Waterfront Hotel—all names point to the same convenient complex.
Arriving early on Friday is highly recommended. Getting checked in, securing your wristband, and taking a stroll through the layout before the first evening event helps you settle in and shake off any travel fatigue. The weekend is structured around distinct daytime and nighttime vibes, so you can dial your energy up or down depending on the hour.
Friday Evening: Jersey Night
The opening night sets a playful, sporty tone. Pull out your favorite team jersey—whether it’s college, pro, or something nostalgic—and join the crowd for a nightclub-style dance party. A live DJ drives the energy, and the registration area will be open in the lobby or near the pool so you can get wristbanded and jump straight into the fun. This theme is deliberately low-pressure: athleisure, tees, and comfortable gear all fit right in. It’s about breaking the ice with shared laughs over team loyalties and easing into the weekend’s social rhythm.
Saturday Daytime: Pool Party and Games
Saturday afternoon flips the script to a poolside bash that genuinely earns the “adult spring break” comparison. The indoor heated pool becomes the focal point for games, giveaways, and a lively social scene. Swimwear you feel confident in is the dress code here; a light cover-up and flip-flops make transitions back inside effortless. The pool deck is also where you’ll catch a special feature: the Mr. Secret Sinsations – Indianapolis competition. Winners earn free entry to the finals held in Gettysburg on New Year’s Eve, with the 2026 champion walking away with a year of complimentary entries and a trip to the Dominican Republic in April 2026, coordinated through the organizer’s travel partner.
Saturday Night: The Homecoming Ball
When the sun goes down, the energy transforms. The central atrium morphs into a full-blown nightclub with high-end sound, sophisticated lighting, dance cages, and a stripper pole. The dress code calls for your most polished looks—think suits, cocktail dresses, sharp accessories, and glam touches that make you feel spectacular. This is the weekend’s centerpiece, a chance to dress to impress and dance until the early hours. Once the main event winds down, guest-hosted after-parties often spring up in private rooms, extending the night in a more intimate setting.
Sunday: Wind-Down and Farewells
By 3:00 p.m. on Sunday, the hotel returns to its everyday rhythm. Plan your checkout and travel accordingly, maybe squeezing in a lazy brunch or a final dip before heading home. The compressed timeline means the weekend moves fast, so pacing yourself across the two nights ensures you enjoy every phase without burnout.
How Wristbands and Entry Work
Understanding the entry system is crucial because it differs from typical event ticketing. There are no online sales, no advance digital purchases, and no credit card swipes for wristbands. Everything happens in person when you arrive. Here’s the breakdown:
- In-person registration only. You’ll visit the designated area—usually the lobby or poolside—and present a government-issued photo ID proving you’re 21 or older.
- Cash is king. Wristband payments are cash-only, so hit the ATM before you arrive. Cards won’t be accepted for this part of the process.
- Wristbands and rooms are separate. Your hotel reservation does not include your wristband. You’ll pay for lodging directly with the hotel and handle your wristband donation on-site with the event staff.
- Wristbands are mandatory property-wide. Once the takeover begins, anyone on hotel grounds must wear a wristband. Keep it visible and intact—it’s your pass to every area and activity.
The organizer lists wristband costs as “donations,” and while these amounts are current, they’re subject to change, so confirming at registration is wise. For couples, a full-weekend wristband pair is typically $150, with single-night options at $60 for Friday and $90 for Saturday. Throuples (three people attending together) can expect around $200 for the weekend, or $90 Friday and $170 Saturday. Single men, who face limited capacity and pre-approval, generally pay $150 for the weekend, $75 Friday, or $100 Saturday. Single women, also subject to approval, pay about $60 for the weekend, $30 Friday, or $40 Saturday.
Singles Policy: Pre-Approval Is a Must
Attendance for singles is intentionally limited to maintain the event’s balance and comfort level. If you’re attending solo, you must receive pre-approval from the organizer before you book any travel, reserve a room, or assume you’ll be admitted. The process starts with a call or text to 304-679-2153, available between 9:00 a.m. and 9:00 p.m. Without that green light, you risk being turned away at registration, regardless of how far you’ve traveled. This policy isn’t about exclusion—it’s about curating a respectful, enjoyable mix of guests. Once approved, arrive with your ID and confirmation handy, and approach the weekend with a social, low-pressure mindset that prioritizes connection over pursuit.
Booking Your Hotel Room
Reserving a room is straightforward but requires a phone call rather than a few clicks. Do not book online through third-party sites or the hotel’s general website. Instead, dial the Garnett Hotel & Conference Center directly at 317-755-2244 and mention you’re with the "Secret Sinsations" group to access the reserved block. Rooms tend to sell out quickly given the full-property takeover, so calling early is your best bet. If you hit a wall and the block is full, ask to join the waitlist—cancellations do happen.
When you call, confirm the hotel’s specific booking and cancellation policies, as these can vary. Remember again that your room key doesn’t double as an event pass; wristbands are handled entirely separately. You can mix and match lodging and attendance to suit your plans: stay both nights and party both nights, attend just Friday or Saturday without a room, or book a room for two nights but only join the festivities on one evening. Flexibility is built in.
What to Pack: The Smart Attendee’s Checklist
Showing up prepared makes the difference between a stressful scramble and a seamless, confident weekend. Here’s what belongs in your bag:
- Government-issued photo ID. Non-negotiable for registration and age verification.
- Cash for wristbands. Estimate your donation based on the pricing tiers, plus a little buffer.
- Theme outfits. A jersey or sporty look for Friday, and dressy Homecoming attire for Saturday night—suits, cocktail dresses, sharp accessories.
- Pool gear. Swimwear you love, sandals or flip-flops, a light cover-up, and a small tote. A towel isn’t strictly necessary but can be handy.
- BYOB essentials. Your favorite beverages in non-glass containers, plus a reusable cup or tumbler. Glass is prohibited anywhere on the property.
- Comfort and hygiene items. Portable phone charger, deodorant or body wipes, breath mints, lip balm, any personal medications, and safer-sex supplies like condoms, dental dams, and lubricant.
- Organizer contact saved in your phone. 304-679-2153, especially crucial if you’re a single attendee or encounter any questions en route.
Dress Code: Theming with Comfort and Confidence
While there’s no rigid, fussy dress code, leaning into the themes enhances the collective experience. Friday’s Jersey Night is your chance to rep a favorite team in whatever form feels right—jerseys, tees, athleisure. Saturday daytime calls for poolside style: swimwear that makes you feel great, paired with practical footwear for navigating between the pool and indoor spaces. Saturday night’s Homecoming Ball is the moment to elevate. Polished, flattering looks not only photograph beautifully under the event lighting but also boost your own confidence as you step into the nightclub atmosphere. The overarching vibe is “nightclub energy”—a step above super casual, with an emphasis on feeling attractive and at ease.
First-Timer Tips for a Smooth, Memorable Weekend
If this is your first hotel takeover, a little forethought goes a long way. Start by registering as early as possible on Friday to avoid lines, secure your wristband, and get a mental map of the venue. Knowing where the pool, atrium, restrooms, and quiet corners are helps you navigate the weekend without hesitation.
Pacing is everything. With daytime activities bleeding into late-night dancing, it’s easy to overextend. Alternate alcoholic drinks with water, make use of the small snacks provided, and don’t hesitate to take a breather in your room or a quiet lounge area. The weekend is a marathon, not a sprint.
Consent isn’t just a rule—it’s the culture. Always ask before touching anyone, and accept a “no” with grace and without pushback. If you’re new to this kind of environment, start with conversation and let chemistry develop naturally rather than rushing. The same principle applies to phones and photos: be discreet, keep your device tucked away in sensitive areas, and never capture or share images of anyone without their explicit, enthusiastic permission. Event staff may also provide guidance on where phones are allowed.
If you’re invited to an after-party in someone’s room, respect the host’s boundaries, keep hallway volume reasonable, and bring your own cup. These smaller gatherings extend the community feel, but they rely on mutual respect to stay enjoyable for everyone. Finally, if something feels off at any point—whether a boundary violation, a safety concern, or just an uncomfortable situation—find a staff member immediately. The team is there to maintain the welcoming, pressure-free atmosphere that defines the event.
Consent, Etiquette, and Safety: The Foundation of the Weekend
The event’s private, nonjudgmental atmosphere rests on a foundation of clear norms that every attendee is expected to uphold. These aren’t just guidelines—they’re the shared agreement that lets everyone relax and be themselves.
Consent Is Active and Ongoing
Every interaction begins with a question, not an assumption. Enthusiastic, mutual interest is the only green light. If someone says no, hesitates, or seems uncertain, the interaction stops immediately. There’s no room for negotiation or repeated pressure. For newcomers, moving slowly and letting connection build through conversation is not only acceptable—it’s encouraged. Check in with partners frequently, especially when shifting activities or intensity, and remember that consent can be withdrawn at any moment.
Privacy in the Digital Age
Discretion is a cornerstone of the experience. Phones should stay out of sight in play spaces, dance areas, and anywhere people might feel exposed. Even in common areas, ask before snapping a photo that might capture others in the background. Never post or share images of fellow attendees without their clear, informed consent. Protecting each other’s anonymity is a collective responsibility that maintains trust within the community.
Wristband and Access Protocols
Your wristband is your passport—keep it on, keep it visible, and don’t tamper with it. Security and event staff manage access points, flow, and safety throughout the property. Cooperate promptly if asked to show your wristband or follow directions. These measures aren’t about restriction; they’re about preserving the private, secure container that makes the weekend possible.
Drink Safety and BYOB Smarts
With a bring-your-own-beverage policy and an on-site bar operating both nights, managing your consumption wisely is key. Glass containers are prohibited, so transfer your drinks into a reusable cup or tumbler before arriving. Keep that cup with you, and don’t leave it unattended—if you lose track of your drink, start fresh with a new pour. Alternating with water and grabbing snacks throughout the day keeps you hydrated and steady. The bar staff and event team are there to support a safe environment, so don’t hesitate to ask for help if needed.
Pool and Venue Courtesy
The indoor heated pool is a daytime hub, but a few simple courtesies keep it pleasant for everyone. Wear swim-safe footwear to avoid slips, dry off before heading back into carpeted areas, and never bring glass onto the pool deck. In shared spaces like hallways and lounges, keep exits clear, follow posted signs, and be mindful of noise levels, especially late at night when some guests may be resting.
After-Parties and Intimate Spaces
Guest-hosted after-parties and designated play areas operate on invitation and respect. If you’re welcomed into a private room, honor the host’s specific rules—whether that means shoe removal, volume limits, or particular boundaries around play. Clean up after yourself, use your own cup, and keep hallway conversations low as you come and go. Inside play spaces, consent remains paramount: check in verbally, watch body language, and stop immediately if anyone expresses or signals withdrawal of consent.
Health and Hygiene Habits
Bringing your own safer-sex supplies—condoms, dental dams, personal lubricant—is a baseline expectation. Freshening up before intimate encounters shows consideration for partners, and washing or sanitizing hands between partners is a simple but impactful practice. Packing deodorant, wipes, breath mints, and any personal medications ensures you feel fresh and comfortable throughout the weekend’s long hours.
Looking Out for Each Other
Community safety is everyone’s business. If you notice someone who seems uncomfortable, isolated, or in a situation that doesn’t look right, check in with them or alert a staff member. Quick reporting of boundary violations, safety hazards, or concerning behavior allows the team to step in and preserve the positive atmosphere. A culture of mutual care amplifies the fun for everyone and reinforces the event’s core values.
Venue Highlights: The Garnett Hotel & Conference Center
The choice of venue is integral to the weekend’s success. By taking over the entire Garnett Hotel & Conference Center, the event creates a seamless, self-contained world where every space serves a purpose. The central atrium, with its soaring ceilings, is transformed into a nightclub for the Homecoming Ball, complete with professional-grade lighting, a DJ setup, dance cage, and stripper pole. During the day, the same area might serve as a relaxed gathering spot.
The indoor heated pool anchors the Saturday daytime festivities, providing a weatherproof setting for games, socializing, and the competition. With roughly 19,000 square feet of banquet and meeting space, plus a lounge, fitness room, and business center, the property offers ample room for programming, quiet corners, and spontaneous connections. An on-site restaurant and bar add convenience, while free parking and easy access between guest rooms and event spaces reduce logistical friction. Calling the hotel directly to book under the group name is the only way to secure a room within the takeover block.
Getting There and Final Logistics
The Garnett Hotel & Conference Center sits at 2930 Waterfront Parkway West Drive in Indianapolis. If you’re flying in, plan your ground transportation in advance—rideshares and taxis are readily available, but having a plan avoids late-night scrambling. For locals or those driving, the free on-site parking is a welcome perk.
If you’re not staying at the hotel, you’re still welcome to attend any portion of the weekend, but arranging rides ahead of time is essential, particularly for late-night departures. The weekend officially opens at 3:00 p.m. Friday and closes at 3:00 p.m. Sunday, so schedule flights or road trips with that window in mind. Whether you’re attending for a single night or the full stretch, the key is preparation: cash in hand, ID ready, theme outfits packed, and a mindset geared toward respectful, joyful connection.
This Indianapolis takeover offers a rare blend of playful daytime energy, glamorous nightlife, and a consent-driven culture that lets adults explore connection on their own terms. With smart planning and a spirit of openness, it’s the kind of weekend that lingers in memory long after the wristband comes off.
